A Gentleman's Primer

An FtM's lessons in the art of being a Gentleman

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Please Stand By…

Hello everyone!

First and foremost, I want to apologize for the recent inactivity on the Primer. Three weeks ago, I graduated from law school, which, turns out is a fairly busy time. But, on the plus side, I’m now a law school graduate and licensed attorney in my state!

Coming soon to the Primer…

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Attire: Importance of a Tailor

This week’s post discusses why a tailor is important, how to find a good tailor, what to ask for, and what to expect while you’re there.

In my opinion, a good tailor is especially important to transguys; they can take an ill fitting wardrobe and customize it to your style, body-type and specifications. A tailor adds polish and sophistication to your closet. 

As always, thanks for reading, and please let me know if you have any questions.

Cheers - Mason

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Viewpoints: Dealing with Discrimination, Ignorance or Bias

In a recent post I wrote briefly about the fact that, sadly, many trans* people face discrimination, or bias on a regular basis. We all have different ways of handling these incidents: from internalization or quiet protest, to confrontation or outright rage. This post discusses my thoughts on handling these situations, with as much as civility as possible. I understand this is a highly personalized matter, and everyone has their own style. I just wanted to post my thoughts, and ways that I like to handle these unfortunately common situations.

As always, I welcome (polite) conversation and discussion. Thanks everyone!


Cheers - Mason

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thewintercynic asked: This is the blog I've needed all my life! :D So so happy to have stumbled upon it.

Thanks so much! I’m happy to know it’s helped. Let us know if you have any questions about attire, etiquette, careers, or anything else.

Cheers - Mason

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Romance: Happy Valentine's Day

Just a little love note to my wife (and readers) for Valentine’s Day. We should show our friends, families (including our pets!), and significant others (“Sig-O’s”) that we love them everyday. But today is a day to go that extra mile, and do something above and beyond to show them that we appreciate, respect, and love them.

So to everyone out there: I wish you all the love in the world. No matter who you are, how you identify, how old or young you are, or anything else - you ARE loved. Take today to celebrate that love, and give your love to others!

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Cheers - Mason

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